This post may step on some toes but I am at the point of not caring. If you are a person that cheats on another person you are a LOSER! Wake up people, it is 2011 and adults should not be cheating on each other and yet it happens everyday for no “real” reason. There are no valid reasons to cheat, especially today. In a world of open relationships and swinging lifestyles the old reasons for cheating like “sex” are not valid anymore. At the end of the day, the people that are lying and cheating to their significant others are doing so because they are selfish. There is no other way to explain it. These people want to have their cake and eat it too.
In order to cheat successfully, a person will need to tell several lies in order to keep up the first lie. If someone is constantly lying then they cannot be trusted. If they cannot be trusted then they do not need to be in a relationship in the first place. Yet, these people are constantly working their way into other people’s lives and causing heartache. This is because they are LOSERS. The thing that confuses me more than anything is the people that stay in relationships with these people. Think about this for just a moment. No one is born lying. Lying is a characteristic of a cheater. Not everyone that lies cheats, but everyone that cheats does lie. I have always been taught that if someone lies then they will steal. Cheaters will steal a person’s dignity, integrity, self esteem and other key building blocks to the human spirit. They break them down emotionally to the point of it showing up in their physical appearance.
Cheaters are LOSERS for one simple fact and that is because they do it by choice. Anytime a person chooses to hurt someone for their own self interest, then they are one of the lowest forms of life on earth. Both I and many of my friends have been cheated on in the past. This was when I was younger and a lot dumber. The numbers of lies that have been uncovered from past relationships with those LOSERS are crazy. It was not even necessary. If those people that decided to be dishonest and cheat would have just been honest then at least they would have some respect. It is better to be honest and have respect vs. being a LOSER with no respect. It never ceases to amaze me how people that cheat always act as if they really care about the person they are hurting. The do “care” but they do not “care” about the person. What they “care” about is what the person provides them. It may be a home, car, money, or financial security. However, let’s not be fooled into thinking that they actually “care”. Do not ever forget that CHEATERS = LIARS = LOSERS!